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    Ancestral Trauma and Teen Suicide - What You Should Know
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Nov 9, 2018
    • 5 min

    Ancestral Trauma and Teen Suicide - What You Should Know

    “I just want to fuckin die.” Coming from the mouth of a 12-year old, this is a devastating thing to hear. It is something that we might...
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    Reclaiming the Wildman
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Apr 14, 2016
    • 6 min

    Reclaiming the Wildman

    “The Lord of Animals or the Releaser of Animals, in the time before time, crossed the line from the animals’ side of things to the human...
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    Don't Push the River...
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Apr 2, 2016
    • 4 min

    Don't Push the River...

    …it moves all by itself. There is an obsession with doing in our culture. One that gets under the skin of most people, and demands that...
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    The Healing Ground of Ritual
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Mar 24, 2016
    • 3 min

    The Healing Ground of Ritual

    Last weekend I had the powerful experience of attending a grief ritual led by Francis Weller. It was an experience that has moved me in...
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    Killing the Mystic
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Mar 17, 2016
    • 6 min

    Killing the Mystic

    Sometimes shit just doesn’t work out. It’s the way it is. You try and try and try, and the bottom just drops out from beneath you. This...
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    Gateways of the Sacred
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Mar 4, 2016
    • 6 min

    Gateways of the Sacred

    Ceremony is embedded in our bones. It is an integral part of our human inheritance. It has been woven through our DNA for thousands of...
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    Your Story Is Not Over
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Feb 19, 2016
    • 5 min

    Your Story Is Not Over

    Have you ever felt like the world is collapsing around you? Like nothing you do can stop the onslaught of fear, sorrow, or desperation...
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    A Deeper Purpose Than Happiness
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Dec 24, 2015
    • 7 min

    A Deeper Purpose Than Happiness

    For the past few years, I have been helping people discover a deeper sense of purpose in their lives. I have helped them through some of...
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    Jedi Lessons to Live By
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Dec 17, 2015
    • 5 min

    Jedi Lessons to Live By

    I’ve loved Star Wars since I was a kid. When I was little I used to ask my mom to change my name to Luke, to which she’d quickly reply...
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    It Takes a Village - Making Adults in the Age of Adolescence
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Dec 4, 2015
    • 3 min

    It Takes a Village - Making Adults in the Age of Adolescence

    In traditional indigenous cultures the village takes part in everything. That is what proponents of village life have to tell us. ...
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    The Only Prayer You'll Ever Need
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Nov 27, 2015
    • 5 min

    The Only Prayer You'll Ever Need

    "If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough." - Meister Eckhart Our culture is a taking culture....
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    The Tragedy of Paris
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Nov 20, 2015
    • 6 min

    The Tragedy of Paris

    The last week has been tinged with the sorrow, outrage, and hatred that masks itself as self-righteous indignation over the horrific...
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    Self-Harm and the Burden of Youth
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Nov 13, 2015
    • 5 min

    Self-Harm and the Burden of Youth

    I work with a lot of young people. For twelve years I have spent a lot of time being a mentor, advisor, confidante, and guide to...
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    The Place of Eating Ashes - Grief and the Soul's Work
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Nov 6, 2015
    • 5 min

    The Place of Eating Ashes - Grief and the Soul's Work

    Sometimes the road ahead of us gets dark. The dreams we had of what life would be when we were young start to dim, and we come face to...
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    The Speed of the Soul
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Oct 30, 2015
    • 4 min

    The Speed of the Soul

    There is an inherent speed to things. We see it when we observe the rhythms of the natural world. When we step into a meadow and see...
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    Returning to the Soul of the World
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Oct 1, 2015
    • 6 min

    Returning to the Soul of the World

    The planet does not need more successful people. The planet desperately needs more peacemakers, healers, restorers, storytellers and...
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    The Ill-Fitting Mask of Invincibility - Our Wounded Masculinity
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Sep 3, 2015
    • 5 min

    The Ill-Fitting Mask of Invincibility - Our Wounded Masculinity

    One of the things that I’ve noticed over the course of my work is that men are afraid of stepping out of conventional ideas of strength...
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    The 5 Stages of Projection - Part III
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Aug 13, 2015
    • 3 min

    The 5 Stages of Projection - Part III

    The exercise at the end of last week's post is a Shadow exercise. If you didn't get a chance to do it before, I strongly recommend that...
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    The 5 Stages of Projection - Part II
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Aug 6, 2015
    • 3 min

    The 5 Stages of Projection - Part II

    There are a few different layers to projection (If you missed last week's intro on projection, read it here). We are complicit in all of...
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    The 5 Stages of Projection - Part I
    Oscar C. Pérez
    • Jul 30, 2015
    • 4 min

    The 5 Stages of Projection - Part I

    Have you ever experienced something like this? Luis started dating Jennifer a few days ago. He really liked her. He was excited about...
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