November 20, 2015

The last week has been tinged with the sorrow, outrage, and hatred that masks itself as self-righteous indignation over the horrific attacks in Paris.  It has come up with a few of my clients.  It alternates between a slow-burning seething pain and a flaring, almost ov...

August 13, 2015

The exercise at the end of last week's post is a Shadow exercise.  If you didn't get a chance to do it before, I strongly recommend that you take some time to do it before reading on. 

You see these people the way that you do because they are holding proj...

August 6, 2015

There are a few different layers to projection (If you missed last week's intro on projection, read it here). We are complicit in all of them, until we get to the 4th.  This is when we have to choose to accept that our projection is a shadow issue of ours, or we move o...

July 30, 2015

Have you ever experienced something like this?

Luis started dating Jennifer a few days ago.  He really liked her.  He was excited about the relationship and where it would lead.  He was a little nervous, because she had all of the qualities that he wanted in a woman.  S...

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